Beauty

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Beauty

Our society places too much emphasis on outward appearances!  How can anyone judge what is beautiful and what is not?  It really is true that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.  There are so many celebrities that are called “beautiful” but I don’t see it at all.  Then there is the photoshopping that leads us to believe that humans actually look the way celebrities are presented in film and print; if a relationship is based on looks, even if just initially, it is not worth having.  It is superficial and the happiness won’t last.  Looks change over time, always.  

The truth is attraction is really an energy thing and not about physical beauty.  The world is full of “beautiful” men and women. Have you ever-wondered why or how two people actually find each other?  It is all about energy not looks.

The most important thing to understand is that if you feel you are unattractive and unlovable then you are correct.  If you feel you have value and are very lovable you are also correct.  So how does it work?  You send a vibe out for everyone to sense and feel.  They respond to the energy you are transmitting.  In addition, that “I am not lovable” energy will shut down your ability to receive anyone who may want to come in because your signal is saying, “No, I am not lovable”.  There is more to the old adage “Beauty is more than skin deep” than just words.  If you believe you are lovable then others will see that, feel that and believe it.  

Another important thing is to not look for a partner.  Be okay with being you all by yourself.  You will know you are getting there when you no longer feel lonely, bored, or just want someone to share your life with.  When we look for a partner it does several things energetically.  

1. It sends out a needy energy which will either bring you an abuser or someone who is equally, or more so, needy.  
2. It pushes away the real one that will be coming in.  Think of two magnets, when one pushes it repels the other.  The same thing happens in relationships.  

The relationships in which we look rarely, happily, withstand the test of time.  

Practice loving you inside and out; practice being comfortable with only you!  So many people can attest that “beauty” does not bring happiness and neither does having a mate.  It is solely your responsibility for you to find happiness within you.  

– Cynthia Pickett, LCSW, LADC

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